Keeping the faith- gems and lessons

Despite the gloom and many issues raised, hidden among the problems were many gems for us to discover, to warn us, to pre empt us.
It reinforce why Buudha did not estabished an organisation, why he continue to live a homeless life. A homeless life remind us of impermanence and letting go. Maybe as a family, we should live a nomad life for a few years.
Unlike other spiritual group, there is a monk-lay person eco system. The lay person takes care of the monks worldly needs and the monk practise to be a role model and be a teacher to the layperson. When the monk find other avenues to support themselves, the eco system break down. It is a beautiful system - with check and balance, practise of selflessness, depedency. Thus, layperson are encourage to give alms - maybe more to generate generosity, concern for others rathern than as merit making for onself.
It is the lay person responsibility to learn from the right sources. Ehi passiko - come and see for oneself. Test the teaching and see for one self the teaching. Don't assume or rely blindly, based on the robe. When learned, the lay person then would not be easily mislead. The teacher become a coach, a guide, a mentor not a faith dispenser nor wealth dispenser (giving out 4D numbers, amlet, holy water) or a cure all healer. In the days before examination board, certications, master and teachers has to gain respect and accolade through their examples and from community.
It is an evolving, gradual process through words of mouth. One does not become expert or master overnight upon graduation. A mechanic gain respect when he can get cars going most of times, he diagnose correctly, without cheating. These days, with money, one can buy certificates.
I think we have to follow the same approach in seeking a teacher. Watch, observe for a long period of time, in different situation. If the person display exemplary behaviour in all situations, he/she can be shortlisted for further of our own test. And once we find one, the role reverse, and we need to take good care of the teacher.
There are many good writeup on guru-student relation in Tibetan Buddhism.








